Where Love and Identity MeetFebruary 15, 2014 by Courtney+ I am over at Single Matters chatting about the kind of love that defines. What kind of lies have you believed about how your relationships define you? They may not be what you think… Hop on over to Single Matters and join the discussion! Logging In... Profile cancel Sign in with Twitter Sign in with Facebook or CommentName EmailNot published Website Please enter an answer in digits:19 − 4 = Don't leave me out of Now Found Discussions.